Thursday, August 31, 2017

Mexican Tour

I thought it's about time I posted another blog.  I am now traveling again, this time to four Mexican cities and consulates.  I was fortunate enough to spend the entire summer with my daughter and husband so hopefully it eased some of the work he had to get done on the house.  Doing these business trips can be rough, but in a way, it is a get-away from the every day responsibilities -- taking of the house, taking care of everyone else.  In America, you just don't have the luxury of affordable help so it gets overwhelming.  So I consider these trips to be relaxing in a way and rejuvenating.  I work both at the office and at the hotel to get done what I need to get done in a week's time.  I'm hope they are fruitful for my hosts as well as getting some time to catch up and recharge.  

Ciudad Juarez

This was an amazing city.  Earlier this year, I got to visit Matamoros, which was a city close to the USA border of Brownsville, Texas.  I was amazed at the difference upon crossing the border into Mexico.  This is my second visit to Mexico, and it's already a different feel --I loved it!  I stayed at the Holiday Inn express in Juarez across from the Placiones Mall --I loved that mall!  It is truly more of an entertainment center than a mall as it was loaded with restaurants, game places, movies, dozen dessert places more than it was for shopping.  It even had an ice skating rink.  I practically went there every day and got to taste different taco places.  I got a wash/blow dry for $15 USD which in the states these days cost $35 for my long hair.  I also got my mani/pedi done which was a bit cheaper, though not by much.  Still, cost of living is cheaper.

It was also a safe city to drive in.  There are no crosswalks here, so pedestrians walk across to the median while waiting to cross the other side.  Surprisingly enough, cars do watch for you and I noticed that the drivers here trust that the cars will stop!  For instance, here in Juarez, there are a lot of U-turns and so traffic can happen for a quite a bit.  I was in an Uber and this guy literally made a U-turn with oncoming traffic!! I practically screamed and later I learned, that they just believe the cars will yield. From what I've seen they do.  Still, many people get hit by cars, according to my driver.  So though it's not like El Salvador where you are at your own risk, it's interesting to see the different ways people drive.  Culture shock.

Food - it was indeed amazing.  The tacos were filling and I'm now a big fan of the salty black beans. I like them mashed up or in a soup.  Every day at breakfast, I had scrambled eggs and a serving of those thick Mexican tortilla chips with bean sauce, hot sauce, shredded cheese and guacamole.  I wonder how Mexicans stay thin!  Well, I posted in Twitter that I can definitely get used to eating this diet every day.. Maybe.

I am now in Monterrey, Mexico and it is definitely another city.  The closest border is about 2 hours away in Matamoros.  So, I really need to brush up on my Spanish for the next week.  Thankfully, they understand some French since my emersed French seems to come out automatically. In the meantime, enjoy these lovely pics of my tour in Ciudad Juarez where I got to drive across the border to Texas and New Mexico. I got to see an unusual phenomenon - white sands national monument.

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El Paso at the Archaeology museum - free


White sands national monument


Tobagganing on the dunes - a fun activity 


The scenic drive parallels the railroad tracks

Sunday, April 23, 2017

Our 4th Cruise, Norwegian Getaway

Well, we went last minute and hubby told me only one day upon my return from my last business trip. A nice surprise indeed, though we didn't do much planning in the three port stops (Roatan, Honduras; Costa Maya, and Cozumel)  It was relaxing nevertheless.  Now taking a day to recover from my "sea legs."


Memoirs of my Norwegian Cruise Line Getaway
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Day 1

After a nice dinner, the next morning, everyone, big and small were at the gym! It was fully packed, as we wanted to burn off the chocolate lava cake. 😂 🎂 

 

Day 2

Alyssa reveals to me that she wants to join the military. I asked her who gave her that idea, she says it came from her brain.  Her nickname is Private Spitter. 

Alyssa says "com'on mommy, take me to the other game place!" I am like what game? There is only one arcade on the ship. Turns out she meant the casino 😂😂


Day 3, Roatan, Honduras


We got conned into this $50 day tour on the island, which consisted of one real zip line excursion followed by a private beach, with "snorkeling/entrance fees."  Best part of our day was holding a monkey -  🐒 a three dollar tip.    

Alyssa and Cocoa                                            Jason and Cocoa 
 
Day 4

Nibble nibble...A little bit here, a little bit there. We learned that the 24 hour buffet was Jason's favorite activity onboard, followed by nappy.

 

Day 5

I don't want to leave!! No dishes, no laundry 🙏🏻 and all you can eat 🍮 desserts 🍨

 
Lizard or Iguana 🦎 towel

Day 6, Cozumel

We sure got our nappy in but could not take the caves excursion due to time constrains  😿 Oh well more family time soaking sun at the beach..we are together that's what matters! Ooh and more money in the wallet.

 

Day 7

Bo got her dance classes, including thriller (pictured below), Latin, and Jive.  Some fresh moves for more exercises at home - a new habit perhaps?? Along with meditation.  Truly a great time..Got rained in one day, but never bored. 👍🏻😺

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Wednesday, February 22, 2017

2017 Travel Begins

It has been too long since my last blog post.  I am still traveling a lot for my current job which is great for my cultural experience, but bad for my family life as they have to make due with one person down.  Also, my Florida routine is on pause.  In any case, I'm happy to share some pictures of my latest fun adventures.

                                          El Anteno Grand Book Store, Buenos Aires
                                                   

              Japanese Garden, Buenos Aires 



                                                             
Tango Show

 Brownsville, TX Charro Days kick-off
                                               
                                                    Parasailing Ready in South Padre, a first.


 Jan 2017 began with a trip to Buenos Aires where I got to sample Dulce de Leche flavors, eat steak and watch Tango.  I then had three weeks in town where I got to shuffle Alyssa around with her soccer practices, horseback lessons and occasionally, gymnastics.  Between preparing for my next trips, I was planning birthday parties and making from scratch, greeting cards for Valentine's Day and Thank You's.

I was blessed again, to visit Matamoros, Mexico.  The city borders Brownsville, Texas and the US Consulate is literally 15 minutes away.  It seems like another world when you cross the border, but really, you can sense there are no borders when it comes to culture - the language, the tradition and feel, definitely surpasses the boundaries.  I love the tacos and I don't think I'll ever order hard tacos now!  "Drop that chalupa!!"

Next trip is to Georgetown, Guyana where the food is spicy and then some but I'm sure to discover new things.

Signing off until next time.  A food for thought:  You know you live out of a suit case when you actually have measuring tape and flu pills permanently stored in your luggage..And you had to use it.

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Friday, September 9, 2016

Canada Tour

I'm now back in Ottawa for some time, to fill a staffing gap.  This past year, I've enjoyed my Canada posts tour with three site visits total: Toronto, Vancouver and Ottawa.  I really enjoy the great north, not just because I've been here before but because all the wonderful memories it brings.  I may be biased having met my husband and family here but somehow things always brought me back to Canada.  I prayed to Mother Mary for her intercession at the Lady of Fatima shrine when I first applied for the Department of State job and we were at Niagara Falls at the time.  My first tour took me to Ottawa, and when I was in high school my ad for penpals was published in Bop Magazine, and about 50% of the audience responded were Canadians.

I'm glad to be back, and for sure settling in is much faster.  I know the city layout, I've continued my "home away from home" activities such as ballet and tennis lesson to keep up at it, and hope to do some sightseeing this weekend. The CLO recommended the ghost tour so I think that is what I'll aim for tonight or tomorrow night.

Looking forward to a great two weeks.

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Thursday, May 12, 2016

Mobile Lifestyle

It has been too long since my last blog.  I guess I need to re-advertise it on FaceBook.  I am now in DC after a trip to Toronto.  We had a blast there although second week was more hectic than the first. Saturday caught up with dance rehearsals in preparation for recitals; also got to go Alyssa's first communion (after wrestling with the possibility of missing it); and bringing Alyssa to her friend's birthday -- was indeed a blessing that I got to do all of these.

Now it's back at a quiet hotel room for retreat another two weeks.  I must say, one of the things that helps the mind is walking into a quiet, clean room, clear of clutter.  This is one of my motivational factors of letting go more.  Living simply with less; I know my memories are tied to picture frames, memoirs, keepsakes, etc but over the years I do gather clutter.

Check it out.

Peace and Quiet                                                 Clear of Clutter
 


And speaking of a simplistic lifestyle, I'm grateful that Alyssa has inherited the gene from her dad to letting go of things in order to clean up her room.  Actually that is like her Nana, too.  One day we went over photos and she said delete that, delete that!! :D  Alyssa and I ran into arguments about a baby book that I read to her and twice already, she wanted to "give it away." I said "But this was your favorite book!"  Mama's problem of hanging on.  Mama also wanted to keep all the baby bibles to read to her and somehow fit it in our busy lifestyle.

What a breather... Now the rest of my stay will be as calm. I know at least I'm childless but after a while, the quiet gets old. I definitely don't mind being with family even though it is chaotic at times. It makes life more interesting.  And as they say... "People who need people...are the loveliest people in the world."

Picture from first communion




Pics from Toronto

Ice scream with Mr. Beaver and spending time with Mr. Beaver at Canoe museum.

  

Snow appearing rather late, but Ms. Alyssa made most of it.

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

December 2015 - Settling back into the USA.

It is already December 23, 2015 and over four months have gone by since I've returned from Baghdad. Where did the time go?  Who knew that adjusting back state side would take this long. Being away for two years, coming back with a new job and a new home, it sure isn't a piece of cake.

I realized I was spoiled for the year in Baghdad, despite it being a dangerous post.  I didn't have to worry about meals, cooking or grocery shopping, I only needed to worry about taking care of myself and managing my time and I had all kinds of time to do what I wanted to do without the added responsibilities.  Coming back home, there were home renovations that makes settling back a little difficult, my responsibilities as wife and mother and getting back into the disciplinarian game was not easy.  I am glad nevertheless to reunite with my family and to be out of the danger zone.

Some of my friends from before welcomed me back as we continue to spend time together with our children which helped with the adjustment.  Getting back into the greeting card ministry was nice to be able to fellowship and gain back some card making skills.  Also, the dance classes were fun as well even though I lost a bit.  These were the challenges and I guess it goes to show that when you are out of routine, your mind and body takes time to just re-adapt to everything.  Getting older doesn't much help either, I guess :D

Back in 2013 and before, I was super mom, having clothes, meals, children activities and everything planned out to the minimum for the week.  Life seemed perfect but there were things missing.  I depended on myself versus the help of God and my fellow friends.  Now I've done less planning and just went more with the flow.  This helps me focus on the important things which do get gone but I sure don't know how I squeezed so much in back then...Oh yeah, I had no cat, I didn't go to church weekly or spent any time with the bible.  My hubby poor thing took a back seat.

Now that it's the Holidays, I continue to focus on the season of giving. Not necessarily giving physical things, but thinking of donating time and money to organizations.  I don't need to buy 20 toys for my daughter like I used to, in order that all her Christmas wishes come true.  No matter what happened in the end, she would be alright.  I also realize the importance of making your home a home once you've moved.  The more you delay putting picture frames or buying furniture to make your niche, the more you'll feel like you're living out of a box.  I've downsized quite a deal, but adding that touch really makes your home a sanctuary and a place you want to retreat to.

So, for those who move, get those picture frames, decorations and memories out and celebrate them.

Two years have gone by without me and now the next few years, the city will have an additional member for new activities and opportunities to fellowship with.  And speaking of new friends, I'm blessed to have an additional Thai friend(s) both in my job and in my personal life I met through my daughter's gymnastics class.  It truly is a blessing and sometimes I know my mom is watching me making sure I don't lose my identity.  I hope through fellowship with Thai friends, my thai language will strengthen and also the culture.  I also hope to teach Thai to Alyssa at least now I have an excuse!!

Merry Christmas

Monday, December 14, 2015

To Go Electronic or Not that is the Question

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There is a debate going on in my head on whether or not I’ll be totally digitized in 1-2 years with all the technology going on.  Well, after some contemplation I’m ready to begin a debate or at least a start to it.  I’m now 40 years old and about 70-80% of my life have been on processing the old fashion way, pen and paper.  It wasn’t until recently that that texting, e-mail and sharing online exploded the last ten years.  I was using internet when it was still on the DOS feel back at Department of Health and Human Services in 1993.  And up until I was about 16 years of age, I’ve been storing and hoarding stuff forever.  Letting go and living simplicity was not in my nature.
I realize in the last year or so, that my physical space truly is limited and all the memories, scrapbooks, books and magazines that I’ve carried upon me on my shoulder has taken a toll with the many moves with my career.  So I figured, no more..If I can access all my information electronically, then there would be no need for physical storage since I would have a way to access it without the physical space.  Then, we are on the mercy of backups and online availability, which is one of the downsides. 
But think about all the pros of having it all online – you don’t have to carry a huge purse that has an organizer weighing 1 lb.  You can virtually access it anywhere; no more lugging heavy binders and paper everywhere.  You can access yours photos, books, to-do list everywhere not having to remember where you put your to-do list.  You can maybe even be more organized.  No more shredding and disposition.  The pros sound great.
Then you try out this plan and realize some flaws are there already.  I saw this YouTube clip from Loree Marrero, Clutter Diet about how people process information differently and it got me thinking why I wanted to go digital.  The clip mentioned an important thing – well to access your to-do list on your smart phone already requires turning on your phone (granted it’s charged), opening your app if you have a password, finding your app, typing it in and letting auto correct do it’s thing…. Hmmm lots of steps already.  Whereas with a pen and paper it’s available and all you need to do is pick it up and write it down and you’re done.   I’ve been wired for 30 years to use pen and paper and am not quite the digital native like what my daughter (who is now using iPhone to text me and may never learn to properly type).    Pen and paper is also my preference and was my life style up until the recently.  Thinking back to how my office operates, we like the cut and paste feature in logging cable traffic (official messages) that come in.  It sure beats pen and paper writing it over and over, day after day.  But when you think about adjusting the lines in the excel spreadsheet, opening up each e-mail, etc and the processes involved, you wonder if it’s more administrative overhead.  I need to do three things in order to make this system work.  For example, the to-do list on my phone takes more time “to-do” than actually making one up.  Finally, with all the photo web sites available and unlimited electronic storage spaces, you need to remember where you electronically stored them.   Good luck with organizing your e-mails, online drive, photo sites and such!
 As I noted above, downside to going totally digital is that you are at the mercy of backup.  It would depend on the network being up to function especially with a lot of phone apps requiring internet connectivity.  Second you would need caching data to make use of when the network is down but then again it takes storage on your device or computer.  You would also need backup and then you would need to make sure you backup frequently (an extra admin overhead) and also have safekeeping of that backup and know how to access it when needed.  You may even need backup of a backup because what if your backup is damaged? 
All my life I’ve been struggling with storing things and memories.  You can imaging than how going digital will at this point for me, require some admin maintenance to keep the system running.  The time it takes to access electronic data (whether to-do list) e-mail, picture or photos, is dependent on network speed.  For me, now in 2015, it’s quicker to write.
With the pros and cons mentioned, I think the only way I’d be totally digitized is this – if voice recognition works and becomes easier to do whether by my to do list can be recorded when I think of it; not necessitating the need to find pen and paper.  Then I would have my phone with me and have what I need to do with me.  I still believe I’ll need pen and paper to dump out my thoughts before they are transferred digitally.  I hate the folder nightmare in my E-mail apps, so redundancy of where I put information (hard or electronic copy) will be needed.  I will keep electronic copies and also print copies so I can access print copies when the network is down.  My goal is to print less photos and to share/use them effectively.  My favorite photos will now be uploaded to an online drive where they are backed up and into their labels (furbabies, verse images, Alyssa) and I can display them on my computer screen or even TV as slide shows when I desire.  Aha, less physical picture frames in my house.  The key is simplicity and though I’m not naturally that way, I can aim…little by little.

Thoughts to this?  Send me an electronic message :)

Hmmmm..My Christmas Wish list - Amazon Echo?  Maybe if it syncs with all my devices maybe that is the answer.