Saturday, September 28, 2013

September 28: Nearly a Month!


September 28, 2013
 

Another weekend has come; got the duty car and got a few more driving in.  I wonder how the Toyota 1995 RAV will do with all these potholes.  Good news is I’m getting it registered on Monday.  Bad news is finding out how much work needs to be done on it – from fixing breaks to tires and who knows what else.  Jason is going to fix the locks.  We better drive careful cuz this baby ain’t got airbags.  I tell people this as Jason tells me this as well –we have enough accidents to last four generations!! 

Alyssa will start new school on Monday.  Montessori just wasn’t working out.. After all what does one expect.  She joined first grade in the third term of Swaziland school system where playground and free play doesn’t exist.  I find it hard to believe they accept children as young as she – she’s only 5 and a half and quite clever.  But mind you, she is still a child who needs to play!!  Having a friend she knows is a plus as well.
Jason went for job interview on Friday.  He wouldn’t practice with me and so I hope he will get something he likes.  He’s got another one come Wed so I hope he will be more prepared.  May God give him the job that will make him happy.  I really want him to get something that is long term rather than having to reinvent oneself at each new assignment. 

Promotion list came out and after all that volunteer work and taking on “additional” assignments that I thought kept me apart from 250 IMSs..Well that didn’t do it.  I suppose I have to live in Swaziland for three years.  I have to do my fair share..Who knows the rules, it seems to change every year.  Seven seems to be my lucky number so I will hopefully get promoted every 7 years..Seems like a long time.  Both Jason and I are not the types to lobby or sell ourselves.  In the Foreign Service, that’s what you do – you sell yourselves whether to get promoted or to get your next assignment.  We’ll see and give it another tour before making a new career move.

Thursday, September 26, 2013

Going 4th week: Reality Sets In



September 25, 2013

Well I have got the duty car this week so I am finally driving around Swaziland!!  Things to beware..Pot holes every where, speed bumps, plenty of stop signs and stray dogs at night. I ventured out at night which I wasn't supposed to do normally but since I am starting to learn my way around town why not. And I felt my husband is tired of cooking and, I cleaning everyday. Well, an adventure indeed and I made it home.  I did two no-nos. traveling alone and traveling at night! I sure hope the Ocean Basket meal was worth it!!

Week 4: Reality sets in. Internet is mega slow and unreliable. My husband is still waiting for work which I hope is right around the corner. He's got an interview tomorrow.  Me, still adjusting and getting my bearings by foot and so that will help me drive better. Driving on the left side of the road ain't easy!! I got quite a few scares there since I see cars coming to to my left as I turn, and say "holy s**t. Well I shall be accustomed I hope. Exhausted and ready to get into the routine of things. Whew!!  That wraps up week four!

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Great Evening out

Great Evening Out with the Ladies
 

September 17, 2013

Internet is still slow as ever and on/off.  Hopefully our telephone tech at work can liaise with SPTC (that's AT&T for Swaziland) so that I can get the full internet and up it more.  It's frustrating!!  Last night went to dinner at Ocean Basket and saw a movie, "Now you see me" with a bunch ladies. It was a blast!! I'm glad that I am starting to get out there and make friends.  Moving is difficult but finding your niche as they say, can be harder. So I'm glad I'm fitting in.  With today's technology I can still stay connected which is important for me. Two more days 'til Friday.  Office is going well and moving in the right direction.  I'm learning so much.

Week 3


Week Three:  Secondary Elections and New Orientation Tour

 

September 21, 2013

The weekend got here quickly.  Just got done with the new orientation tour.  Fortunately it was a small group so we got food shopping done.  Basically, we got the bus tour of the city and walking around downtown malls.  The weather is a bit rainy which makes it awkward but at least now I know what's out there.  We saw a great mini "Target" called Mr. Price and some good sandwich places such as Computronics and the Coffee Shop at the corporate plaza; and where to buy paper and supplies!  Last but not least, all the cool resorts, spa and restaurants.  I'm glad they have this program.

Yesterday, I was "drafted" to be an election observer for the secondary elections they held in Swaziland.  It ended up being more fun than I thought!  We went to a total of five polling stations throughout the country.. From Siphofaneni to Lubuli and Lobamba.  I am probably not even close to the pronunciations.  As we passed through some of the villages, I saw some images that looked like pages out of the National Geographic! :-)  Our embassy driver was funny.  He knew the route well but to find some of these schools where the polls were, was out of the way.  There are no GPS in Swaziland, LOL.  The GPS's are the locals along the road.  Too funny, so having two SiSwati passengers helped.  I had a great time and seen a monkey, lots of cows and huts.  Oh, and passing the Impala Reserve.
 

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Settling In!


Week Two Settling in this beautiful land

 

September 15, 2013

Hard to believe it’s been two weeks already since we’ve settled in the new land.  So far I like it.  The people are friendly, the air is fresh, and I like my new boss and co-workers.  I mentioned before that everyone seems to care about one another and right now since we’re all shuttling into work together due to everyone arriving at the same time, we’re getting to know the people from the other offices.  The newcomer’s brunch was a great way to meet the community.  Today we went to Lucille’s house from embassy, her daughter goes to the same school as Alyssa although they are in different classrooms. I think it’s great that Alyssa’s starting to make friends.  Finding continuity in something you did before is one way to stay connected.  I managed to get Jason out of the house too, to enjoy the brunch and Alyssa did play with the other kids.  We’ll see how she does in Montessori.  As for me, I think I found a lady who is willing to share some evenings scrapbooking and she might even start a group in the evenings for the ladies at the church!!  How nice..I told her I belonged to a group in Hollywood, FL and it was a great fellowship and a great way to keep up the continuity.  I’m getting Jason to apply for two/three jobs opened at the embassy..Get him out of the house and me…Well I’m still looking for an exercise buddy and Zumba classes.  I think though, we are on our way to getting settled!!

 
Alyssa and Claudia (friend from school)
Sunday Brunch

Saturday, September 7, 2013

Welcome to our new home, Swaziland


First Week in Swaziland

 August 31, 2013

So far so good.  Beautiful house, there is even a horse swing for Alyssa in the back yard.  The drive from JoBurg was long but I managed to get at least one hour sleep.  Went through the border and it was crazy busy.  The funny thing you had to go to both sides of the border in order to come into Swaziland.   We found that the King's Reed dance is Monday and our driver said he’s never seen the customs that busy.  Had a great dinner at Rambles last night where the mushroom soup and mushroom pasta was delish!!  Alyssa loved the playground at the resto.  Everything is so homemade from the tire swings and wood assembled playground.  Life seems simple yet happy here.  Got five hours of sleep, woke up at 1 AM and tried to go back to sleep in an attempt to get used to local time.  Ended up unpacking which is good while I have the quiet time.  Girly is catching up on her sleep.  I think the hubby likes the house too.  Finish making our grocery list and hope to do some shopping today and get the internet set up.  I love my new Surface tablet.   Maybe I can finally get rid of my pen!!!  Well, while  hubby is figuring out all the new things about the house, I may as well get finish unpacking before girly gets up.


Pic of Alyssa in her new backyard horse swing

September 2, 2013

It’s been my third day in Swaziland.  Still buys unpacking, grocery shopping and getting to know my neighborhoods.  Both my office sponsor, Randall, and Mary, social sponsor has been a help to taking me around town and backing me up when I was out of cash at the store.  I still have trouble converting Rand/Swazi money and totally underestimated how much needed. Weather has been beautiful, fresh out here in the mountains.  So far Alyssa seems to be enjoying her new surroundings without missing any friends.  Yesterday, September 1, Randall took us to Coral Gables shopping which was a neat strip mall.  Lots of young kids.  When they say Alyssa they all wanted to touch her – she was apparently a commodity.  I’m not so keen on them getting that close and touching without permission.  What can you do, you are in a foreign land and don’t know what the tradition is or what the culture accepts.  In many ways, Swaziland is like Thailand in sense of respect to elders, sensitivity/reserved and acceptable of society and the extended family to raising a child.

September 3, 2013

Today is my first day of work.  I hope it goes well.  I decided to wear a skirt as it’s supposedly look down upon for woman to wear slacks.  Interesting.  I am taking the first step to being culturally sensitive.  Although I prefer a blouse shirt and slacks.  Yesterday was fun visiting the Nwegeny Glass Factory.  I smuggled (actually bought) one for our house warming that Jason did not know about.  Might as well collect pieces of Africa while we are here.  Also got a wine stopper made of glass in the shape of a hippo.

September 5, 2013

Nearly a week now since we arrived in Swaziland.  Good news, the nausea and headache has gone away from the jet lag and today is my 3rd day at work.  Co-workers seem nice, most importantly ambassador is very personable and open.  Seems like she’s all for the community and keeping it tight knit with not only the worker’s health and well-being but the family members as well.  She’s offered some venues for Jason to look at.  I hope and pray Jason will take heed on the advices I had passed on to him to find work.  We will enjoy this place for sure once.  We all visited Alyssa’s new school and it seems clean, rooms are set up nice.  She will be in the Montessori and the methods they teach allow children to learn at their own pace.  They don’t group by age and she’ll be starting in the third term next week.  Bought the uniforms, so excited.  Skyped with Nana and Papa last night – internet data quality not so bad but internet is expensive and slow.  I wanted to let my friends know that I’m alive even though we’ve been disconnected for nearly four days.  A lot more to learn the next few days.  I need to ensure that some of my seven-week training at the Foreign Service institute will be put into place!  Tomorrow is newcomer’s brunch so I’ll be sure to post pictures!
This is the living room with the fire place. 
Jason moved the TV so he can fit his new big TV screen when it comes in the air shipment next week

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
September 6, 2013
 
Today was the newcomer brunch at the ambassador's residence. It was great to meet the rest of the employees and family members alike.  There are a lot of young children. It is going to be great from playdates to game nights and exercise classes.  What a great community this will be.

 
 
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Pictures of Alyssa playing with new friend in the bounce house

 
 
 
September 11

Well nearly two weeks since we have arrived in Swaziland.  Finally, jet lags are over but getting used to new customs.  I like my new office, the people that I work with seem wonderful and friendly.  That's one of the pros to being at a small post -- a tight knit community that cares for each other and sticks together.  Alyssa started her first day of school at the Montessori Primary which is close to home.  Uniform colors are lime and orange and either black shorts for summer or jogging suit for winter.  Their teaching method is called Montessori where kids may be at various ages but is a self-paced program designed to allow children freedom to individually grow and increase in self-confidence. Alyssa tells me, "mommy it's such a long day!"  At her old school she's there ALL day but I think she's not used to the Montessori learning approach.  I had no idea they had those schools in Florida too.  As part of State Department education is a paid allowance which is another perk!  She'll grow up as a "third culture kid" and all that she'll know is living in different cultures.  Could be a good or bad thing.  Here's the pic I posed on FB, a cute one that I made sure Jason took.