Friday, September 9, 2016

Canada Tour

I'm now back in Ottawa for some time, to fill a staffing gap.  This past year, I've enjoyed my Canada posts tour with three site visits total: Toronto, Vancouver and Ottawa.  I really enjoy the great north, not just because I've been here before but because all the wonderful memories it brings.  I may be biased having met my husband and family here but somehow things always brought me back to Canada.  I prayed to Mother Mary for her intercession at the Lady of Fatima shrine when I first applied for the Department of State job and we were at Niagara Falls at the time.  My first tour took me to Ottawa, and when I was in high school my ad for penpals was published in Bop Magazine, and about 50% of the audience responded were Canadians.

I'm glad to be back, and for sure settling in is much faster.  I know the city layout, I've continued my "home away from home" activities such as ballet and tennis lesson to keep up at it, and hope to do some sightseeing this weekend. The CLO recommended the ghost tour so I think that is what I'll aim for tonight or tomorrow night.

Looking forward to a great two weeks.

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Thursday, May 12, 2016

Mobile Lifestyle

It has been too long since my last blog.  I guess I need to re-advertise it on FaceBook.  I am now in DC after a trip to Toronto.  We had a blast there although second week was more hectic than the first. Saturday caught up with dance rehearsals in preparation for recitals; also got to go Alyssa's first communion (after wrestling with the possibility of missing it); and bringing Alyssa to her friend's birthday -- was indeed a blessing that I got to do all of these.

Now it's back at a quiet hotel room for retreat another two weeks.  I must say, one of the things that helps the mind is walking into a quiet, clean room, clear of clutter.  This is one of my motivational factors of letting go more.  Living simply with less; I know my memories are tied to picture frames, memoirs, keepsakes, etc but over the years I do gather clutter.

Check it out.

Peace and Quiet                                                 Clear of Clutter
 


And speaking of a simplistic lifestyle, I'm grateful that Alyssa has inherited the gene from her dad to letting go of things in order to clean up her room.  Actually that is like her Nana, too.  One day we went over photos and she said delete that, delete that!! :D  Alyssa and I ran into arguments about a baby book that I read to her and twice already, she wanted to "give it away." I said "But this was your favorite book!"  Mama's problem of hanging on.  Mama also wanted to keep all the baby bibles to read to her and somehow fit it in our busy lifestyle.

What a breather... Now the rest of my stay will be as calm. I know at least I'm childless but after a while, the quiet gets old. I definitely don't mind being with family even though it is chaotic at times. It makes life more interesting.  And as they say... "People who need people...are the loveliest people in the world."

Picture from first communion




Pics from Toronto

Ice scream with Mr. Beaver and spending time with Mr. Beaver at Canoe museum.

  

Snow appearing rather late, but Ms. Alyssa made most of it.

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

December 2015 - Settling back into the USA.

It is already December 23, 2015 and over four months have gone by since I've returned from Baghdad. Where did the time go?  Who knew that adjusting back state side would take this long. Being away for two years, coming back with a new job and a new home, it sure isn't a piece of cake.

I realized I was spoiled for the year in Baghdad, despite it being a dangerous post.  I didn't have to worry about meals, cooking or grocery shopping, I only needed to worry about taking care of myself and managing my time and I had all kinds of time to do what I wanted to do without the added responsibilities.  Coming back home, there were home renovations that makes settling back a little difficult, my responsibilities as wife and mother and getting back into the disciplinarian game was not easy.  I am glad nevertheless to reunite with my family and to be out of the danger zone.

Some of my friends from before welcomed me back as we continue to spend time together with our children which helped with the adjustment.  Getting back into the greeting card ministry was nice to be able to fellowship and gain back some card making skills.  Also, the dance classes were fun as well even though I lost a bit.  These were the challenges and I guess it goes to show that when you are out of routine, your mind and body takes time to just re-adapt to everything.  Getting older doesn't much help either, I guess :D

Back in 2013 and before, I was super mom, having clothes, meals, children activities and everything planned out to the minimum for the week.  Life seemed perfect but there were things missing.  I depended on myself versus the help of God and my fellow friends.  Now I've done less planning and just went more with the flow.  This helps me focus on the important things which do get gone but I sure don't know how I squeezed so much in back then...Oh yeah, I had no cat, I didn't go to church weekly or spent any time with the bible.  My hubby poor thing took a back seat.

Now that it's the Holidays, I continue to focus on the season of giving. Not necessarily giving physical things, but thinking of donating time and money to organizations.  I don't need to buy 20 toys for my daughter like I used to, in order that all her Christmas wishes come true.  No matter what happened in the end, she would be alright.  I also realize the importance of making your home a home once you've moved.  The more you delay putting picture frames or buying furniture to make your niche, the more you'll feel like you're living out of a box.  I've downsized quite a deal, but adding that touch really makes your home a sanctuary and a place you want to retreat to.

So, for those who move, get those picture frames, decorations and memories out and celebrate them.

Two years have gone by without me and now the next few years, the city will have an additional member for new activities and opportunities to fellowship with.  And speaking of new friends, I'm blessed to have an additional Thai friend(s) both in my job and in my personal life I met through my daughter's gymnastics class.  It truly is a blessing and sometimes I know my mom is watching me making sure I don't lose my identity.  I hope through fellowship with Thai friends, my thai language will strengthen and also the culture.  I also hope to teach Thai to Alyssa at least now I have an excuse!!

Merry Christmas

Monday, December 14, 2015

To Go Electronic or Not that is the Question

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There is a debate going on in my head on whether or not I’ll be totally digitized in 1-2 years with all the technology going on.  Well, after some contemplation I’m ready to begin a debate or at least a start to it.  I’m now 40 years old and about 70-80% of my life have been on processing the old fashion way, pen and paper.  It wasn’t until recently that that texting, e-mail and sharing online exploded the last ten years.  I was using internet when it was still on the DOS feel back at Department of Health and Human Services in 1993.  And up until I was about 16 years of age, I’ve been storing and hoarding stuff forever.  Letting go and living simplicity was not in my nature.
I realize in the last year or so, that my physical space truly is limited and all the memories, scrapbooks, books and magazines that I’ve carried upon me on my shoulder has taken a toll with the many moves with my career.  So I figured, no more..If I can access all my information electronically, then there would be no need for physical storage since I would have a way to access it without the physical space.  Then, we are on the mercy of backups and online availability, which is one of the downsides. 
But think about all the pros of having it all online – you don’t have to carry a huge purse that has an organizer weighing 1 lb.  You can virtually access it anywhere; no more lugging heavy binders and paper everywhere.  You can access yours photos, books, to-do list everywhere not having to remember where you put your to-do list.  You can maybe even be more organized.  No more shredding and disposition.  The pros sound great.
Then you try out this plan and realize some flaws are there already.  I saw this YouTube clip from Loree Marrero, Clutter Diet about how people process information differently and it got me thinking why I wanted to go digital.  The clip mentioned an important thing – well to access your to-do list on your smart phone already requires turning on your phone (granted it’s charged), opening your app if you have a password, finding your app, typing it in and letting auto correct do it’s thing…. Hmmm lots of steps already.  Whereas with a pen and paper it’s available and all you need to do is pick it up and write it down and you’re done.   I’ve been wired for 30 years to use pen and paper and am not quite the digital native like what my daughter (who is now using iPhone to text me and may never learn to properly type).    Pen and paper is also my preference and was my life style up until the recently.  Thinking back to how my office operates, we like the cut and paste feature in logging cable traffic (official messages) that come in.  It sure beats pen and paper writing it over and over, day after day.  But when you think about adjusting the lines in the excel spreadsheet, opening up each e-mail, etc and the processes involved, you wonder if it’s more administrative overhead.  I need to do three things in order to make this system work.  For example, the to-do list on my phone takes more time “to-do” than actually making one up.  Finally, with all the photo web sites available and unlimited electronic storage spaces, you need to remember where you electronically stored them.   Good luck with organizing your e-mails, online drive, photo sites and such!
 As I noted above, downside to going totally digital is that you are at the mercy of backup.  It would depend on the network being up to function especially with a lot of phone apps requiring internet connectivity.  Second you would need caching data to make use of when the network is down but then again it takes storage on your device or computer.  You would also need backup and then you would need to make sure you backup frequently (an extra admin overhead) and also have safekeeping of that backup and know how to access it when needed.  You may even need backup of a backup because what if your backup is damaged? 
All my life I’ve been struggling with storing things and memories.  You can imaging than how going digital will at this point for me, require some admin maintenance to keep the system running.  The time it takes to access electronic data (whether to-do list) e-mail, picture or photos, is dependent on network speed.  For me, now in 2015, it’s quicker to write.
With the pros and cons mentioned, I think the only way I’d be totally digitized is this – if voice recognition works and becomes easier to do whether by my to do list can be recorded when I think of it; not necessitating the need to find pen and paper.  Then I would have my phone with me and have what I need to do with me.  I still believe I’ll need pen and paper to dump out my thoughts before they are transferred digitally.  I hate the folder nightmare in my E-mail apps, so redundancy of where I put information (hard or electronic copy) will be needed.  I will keep electronic copies and also print copies so I can access print copies when the network is down.  My goal is to print less photos and to share/use them effectively.  My favorite photos will now be uploaded to an online drive where they are backed up and into their labels (furbabies, verse images, Alyssa) and I can display them on my computer screen or even TV as slide shows when I desire.  Aha, less physical picture frames in my house.  The key is simplicity and though I’m not naturally that way, I can aim…little by little.

Thoughts to this?  Send me an electronic message :)

Hmmmm..My Christmas Wish list - Amazon Echo?  Maybe if it syncs with all my devices maybe that is the answer.


A Day and a Half in Bethlehem and Jerusalem

I thoroughly enjoyed my day, and as usual, I love recording my experiences to remember and retain the great moments and to have the opportunity to share them so that my family can be with me in the moment.

The day started great as I was able to change tours from Jerusalem the Old and the New to the one geared specifically for Footsteps of Jesus.  I'm glad I did, it was a walking tour and we spent the first first of the day knowing all the places He went in/around Mount Olives.  We visited the Church where He ascended into heaven and also Pater Noster (caves he escaped with the twelve apostles and what he revealed to them about the end of time). Yes there will be many false prophets.  We then went to overlook the Temple Mount from Mount Olives, looking at the many tombs that has an important linked to the coming of Jesus and when the dead will rise.  We saw the gate where He will enter at end of time, and visited the place (yes another church) Dominus Flevit church where Jesus had a vision of the destruction of Jerusalem many years after His death.  Then, we walked downhill toward the garden where He prayed and sweated tears of blood and found strength upon a rock.




Afterwards, we went inside the city gates, and then went for lunch at an Armenian restaurant which was delicious followed by a visit to Sisters of Notre Dame church the place where Jesus suffered and also housed the stone carving "Game of King."  We ended at three important stops where Jesus was sentenced, where he fell the first time, the church where he was tortured and crowned thorns.  By chance we happened to visit the Western wall in the Jewish Quarter.  I visited so many churches I don't remember but they all played a significant roll in history.  I also learned that the place where Jesus had passover was above the tomb of King David.  People did not know this at the time but it was a very interesting coincidence.  Likewise, the Golgotha was on top of Adam's remains.  When Jesus blood mixed with his bones, he resurrected for a short time.

It was a great day and many tidbits were added to what I have learned from the bible.  Happy I got the chance to come and experience the day in Jerusalem.  I got to experience inside, the different religious quarters: Jewish, Islam, Christian and had Armenian Food so I guess Armenian.


Wednesday, August 5, 2015

End of July and Early August Ramblings

Well, it hasn't been a smooth ending to the week, but at least I am still thankful for certain things I continue to be blessed with.  I completed my spin class despite my tiredness and also got my hair done.  I may be late for many things but I'm never late for a spa appointment :D :D  I'm thankful for google on my mobile app as I gotten a virus on my laptop and though both of my mobile phone internet worked and my laptop browser didn't, I knew it was from that supposedly cleaned freeware site I visited.  Nothing is free - except maybe the love of God.  Everything else is deception and comes with a price.  Back to the google on my mobile phone, I was able to search the error, and there was youtube video on how to fix a setting on google chrome that got changed by a virus.  I *knew* it. I'm thankful for youtube and google :D

Speaking of YouTube and google, one can get lost in many of the links.  Lately in Bible Study and in Church I find myself flipping to the Table of Contents too many times before I find my passage - and voila, I find a "how-to" on google.
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Any-Book-in-the-Bible-in-Under-10-Seconds

There is also a youtube which teaches you in Ten Minutes 66 books of the bible
My take - New Testament definitely easier; imagery always better.

So now it's August and I didn't even finish end of July ramblings.  I just want to end with some things I'm grateful for, for my time in Baghdad.  I'm grateful for Skype, grateful for Krave boxed cereals and last but not least time to bake, experiment, fellowship and "feed" the people of God my baked good creations.  In John 21:15, "Feed my sheep" so may I continue to follow this calling.

Next blog - "Electronic versus Paper."  Yes that in itself has quite a bit of debate....  







Friday, July 3, 2015

Happy 4th of July

I am so excited I could barely sleep.  This is the first time in forever, that I have a three day weekend in Iraq.  We usually have one day off and even two day weekend is rare.  Where else can you go when you live and work in the same spot.  Of course I'm using the time to catch up on my long list of to dos.  Writing this blog is one of them, go figure.

I am planning to teach the thriller routine after taking about 2 full weeks to learn it.  This will be fun.  It will take patience I hope I will be OK.  I learned it using several techniques not every one of the youtube video worked so I used many sources.  Here's my favorite one for the first part:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFEu2vd0nPk

Second part from the Chorus where Michael starts singing, this one shows it step-by-step
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2Ba9HdCOec

Finally, how it should look like - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55h-XfjNO24
Of course watching the actual video helps but with the special effects you don't see each dancer's moves as clearly.

Saturday is the BBQ 4th of July party and Karaoke party.  I guess coming to Baghdad I developed a new hobby - singing, thanks to the Church choir.  I also got to strengthen my tennis so I'm quite happy about that as well.  I can't let go of the tennis now since I get great exercise provided I take it easy and don't get too much to the competitive level.

Next is surveying my room before packout. I don't have a lot of stuff but I wonder how much total pounds I've accumulated.  I've already sold some at two Swap parties (community garage sale) I guess.  Being in Baghdad I can see the glimpse of my lifestyle in a fishbowl.  I'm active in the community but I need time to recharge and unwind.  There's no other way to thrive here and I'm grateful for the many options from singing, exercise, to partying...there's something for everyone here on a smaller scale.  I spent every weekend at the salon and of course, I never miss a garage sale.  I guess it's my way of handling things that come and go in my life.  It is a life style.

Well now that I've dumped some thoughts out, I'm going to move to the next thing on my list which isn't as fun:  laundry.